upgrade to libp2p 0.52 (#4431)

## Issue Addressed

Upgrade libp2p to v0.52

## Proposed Changes
- **Workflows**: remove installation of `protoc`
- **Book**: remove installation of `protoc`
- **`Dockerfile`s and `cross`**: remove custom base `Dockerfile` for cross since it's no longer needed. Remove `protoc` from remaining `Dockerfiles`s
- **Upgrade `discv5` to `v0.3.1`:** we have some cool stuff in there: no longer needs `protoc` and faster ip updates on cold start
- **Upgrade `prometheus` to `0.21.0`**, now it no longer needs encoding checks
- **things that look like refactors:** bunch of api types were renamed and need to be accessed in a different (clearer) way
- **Lighthouse network**
	- connection limits is now a behaviour
	- banned peers no longer exist on the swarm level, but at the behaviour level
	- `connection_event_buffer_size` now is handled per connection with a buffer size of 4
	- `mplex` is deprecated and was removed
	- rpc handler now logs the peer to which it belongs

## Additional Info

Tried to keep as much behaviour unchanged as possible. However, there is a great deal of improvements we can do _after_ this upgrade:
- Smart connection limits: Connection limits have been checked only based on numbers, we can now use information about the incoming peer to decide if we want it
- More powerful peer management: Dial attempts from other behaviours can be rejected early
- Incoming connections can be rejected early
- Banning can be returned exclusively to the peer management: We should not get connections to banned peers anymore making use of this
- TCP Nat updates: We might be able to take advantage of confirmed external addresses to check out tcp ports/ips


Co-authored-by: Age Manning <Age@AgeManning.com>
Co-authored-by: Akihito Nakano <sora.akatsuki@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/release.yml

@@ -79,15 +79,6 @@ jobs:
               if: startsWith(matrix.arch, 'x86_64-windows')
               run: echo "LIBCLANG_PATH=$((gcm clang).source -replace "clang.exe")" >> $env:GITHUB_ENV
 
-            # ==============================
-            # Windows & Mac dependencies
-            # ==============================
-            - name: Install Protoc
-              if: contains(matrix.arch, 'darwin') || contains(matrix.arch, 'windows')
-              uses: arduino/setup-protoc@e52d9eb8f7b63115df1ac544a1376fdbf5a39612
-              with:
-                repo-token: ${{ secrets.GITHUB_TOKEN }}
-
             # ==============================
             #       Builds
             # ==============================